If you’re curious about how to attract younger women, you are not alone. A lot of guys in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond still enjoy dating and carrying on steamy affairs with women a decade or more of their junior. I’m not some sort of scientist, so I can’t tell you why this happens on a scientific level, but as an older guy myself I definitely understand the appeal!
And not to toot my own horn, but I’ve definitely had some success with the younger crowd of eligible bachelorettes the past few years. So I only think it’s right to share my five top tips for attracting younger women.
It’s not rocket science. It just helps to know how these ladies think, and to get a solid understanding of the key principles that you should always keep in mind when you are out and about trying to attract younger women.
So read on, are use these tips to your advantage and enjoy yourself with all of the hot young chicks that you are going to be picking up soon!
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Tip #1 – Keep It Simple
Always keep in mind that younger women like mature men who are not stupid or into playing childish games. This is one of the reasons that so many younger women prefer to date older men. The assumption that an older guy is going to have less drama and other stupid nonsense that she will have to deal with in a dating relationship.
So from the moment that you meet her, keep it simple and be straightforward. No need to try to act cool or do any goofy pick up artist stuff. Lean back, let her know you’re interested, and then take it from there.
If you are the type of guy who enjoys playing with a woman’s emotions, then yes, it may be tempting to play games with them, but that is really not necessary, and seriously dude what’s the point?
And to the same point, even if you have the best intentions do you want to avoid even the appearance that you are sending mixed signals. So just be honest with yourself and show your feelings. And in doing so you will also show her how mature and interesting you are.
Tip #2 – Let Her Experience Your Status
All women are naturally attracted to men who show a high level of social status. A lot of guys complain about this, but it is reality, so why fight against reality when you can just as easily use it to your own advantage.
There are many ways that you can display your social status, but simply being a social person and letting a woman see you interacting with others who respect you will go along way. The more cool people you hang out with, the more attractive you are to them. Therefore, you should surround yourself with friendly women and work on improving your social circle.
This is not to say that you need to be some kind of social butterfly. If you or somewhat of a homebody and like to hang out by yourself, that’s fine. But anything you can do to display the fact that other people like and respect you will only help your situation.
Furthermore, the simple fact that you have accomplished things in your life and have your basic shit together could actually be very impressive to a younger woman who is used to dating guys that are basically living hand to mouth. So for example having a car, a career, savings, a decent place to live and so forth, while these might be things that you take for granted, they could actually be very attractive to young lady.
Tip #3 – Show Her A Good Time
This one sounds obvious, but as we all know girls just like to have fun. Which is why, when it comes to dating a younger woman, you should endeavor to keep things fun and adventurous. This is not to say that you need to do anything overboard (remember tip one, “keep it simple”).
Just try to keep her read on where she is at emotionally and do what you can to help her enjoy herself. Take me to a decent restaurant and encourage her to her let loose a little bit, have a drink, order dessert and so forth.
Maybe after dinner you could take a walk around the mall for a little bit, as we all know women like shopping. And then of course, when you’re back at your house use your decades of sexual experience to give her a great pleasure! This is the thing that’s really going to seal the deal for you and keep her coming back for more.
Tip #4 – Give Her Attention
When a woman starts dating a man, It’s important that she feels like he’s really interested in her and that she’s not just there to fulfill his needs. So let her know that you think she’s special and give her some attention!
What this really comes down to is learning how to listen. When you listen to her, and repeat back things that she said to you, it lets her know that you think of her as worthy of your time and attention and that makes her feel good about herself.
If she feels good about herself when she’s with you then she’s gonna want more and more of you, which is what we’re going for here.
Tip #5 – But, Focus On You
While we just discussed the importance of giving the young woman you are dating plenty of attention, it’s also very important remember to keep your priorities straight.
She may be a great girl, and who knows maybe will even want to get into a serious relationship with her at some point, but no matter what happens you need to remember to focus on yourself first, and make sure that everything continues to run correctly in your life.
Don’t be one of those guys who meets their dream girl and then stops going to the gym, stops hanging out with friends, and stops working towards your other goals – that never ends well!
Just keep taking care of yourself and everything will be fine.
On a related note, it’s always important for an older guy to take care of his Health and appearance. Being on top of the singers will really make you stand out from other guys your age who are typically really out of shape and not looking all that great.
Remember that women like to be around a confident, interesting man. When they see this in you, they will be attracted to you and want to date you.
So let those good characteristics of yours shine and enjoy dating younger women!